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Author: Eric Rodwell Created: 7/30/2007 7:54 AM
Living and working my mission and vision and sharing my thoughts along the way.

Today I delivered speech #3, Get to The Point, for the Toast of Greenwood Village Toastmasters club. Here is the speech below. Enjoy!

How many people have been told they shouldn’t do something because something bad will happen? For example, you shouldn’t go skiing because you will blow out your knee. Or you shouldn’t go play basketball with your friends because you will break your ankle. Or you shouldn’t go play flag football because you will rupture your Achilles tendon?

Today I am going to share with you 3 reasons why men should always listen to their significant others and for the women, why their significant others should always listen to them. How did I come to this epiphany that I should always listen to my wife?

Received a call last year, on St Patrick’s Day, to join a flag football league with my best friend Josh.

My wife, Tashawna, told me not to play because I would probably get hurt. Now I have played sports my whole life, including rugby for 5 years, and the worst injury...

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Tomorrow Never Comeswritten by Norma Cornett Marek in 1989

If I knew it would be the last timeThat I'd see you fall asleep,I would tuck you in more tightlyand pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

If I knew it would be the last timethat I see you walk out the door,I would give you a hug and kissand call you back for one more.

If I knew it would be the last timeI'd hear your voice lifted up in praise, would video tape each action and word,so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time,I could spare an extra minuteto stop and say "I love you,"instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last timeI would be there to share your day,Well I'm sure you'll have so many more,so I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there's always tomorrowto make up for an oversight,and we always get a second chanceto make everything just right.

There will always be another dayto say "I love you,"And certainly there's another chanceto...

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I was reading an article today by Brian Parsley and I came across the following quote I would like to share:

"Don't try being right every time; work on doing what’s right every time."

Brian was referring to our ability to be humble and learn from situations in our life. He used an example of a manager telling his employee "You are not doing it right." The employee responded with "I have never been taught how to do it right." Both the manager and employee are correct, but they could have accepted humility and overlooked trying to be right. Instead the manager could have offered to teach the employee or the employee could have responded with "Could you please teach me the right way."

There is always a right way and wrong way to respond to situations in our life and trying to work on doing what's right, instead of being right, is a good principle to abide by.

Can one person make a difference in the world? Can one person battle the war on terror with books instead of bloodshed? Can one person change the perception some of the most hostile countries have of the United States? Today I would like to share with you how Greg Mortenson, director of the Central Asia Institute, is changing the world through the use of education. From his failed attempt at K2, and near death, Greg was nursed back to help by locals in a remote Pakistani village. Wanting to show is gratefulness, he promised to return to build a school for the local children. To fulfilling his promise and building the school, and with his overwhelming success as director of the Central Asia Institute, Greg Mortenson has proven that one person can make a difference.

How did Greg Mortenson end up on K2 and ultimately that small Pakistani village?

In 1993 Greg decided to climb K2, the 2nd highest mountain in the world, to honor the death of his younger sister. After spending two and a half months on the mountain, and performing a high altitude rescue, Greg accepted failure of not reaching the summit and began to descend. During his descent, he became disoriented and lost and took a wrong term. Near death, he was helped into a local Pakistani village (Korphe) where he was nursed back to health. Wanting to repay the villagers for their compassion, Greg promised to return to build a school for the local children. Before he left, he used his left over expedition supplies and medical knowledge to help the locals.

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The Holiday Season means many things to many people. For some it brings happiness and joy as they get together with family and friends and celebrate the holiday and look forward to the New Year. For others the Holiday Season brings heartache, despair, and sadness as they are unable to share happiness and joy with others. As you spend time with your family and friends over the next few weeks I ask you to reach out and help this later group of people. Whether this is through volunteer efforts, monetary means, prayers, or just saying Hi and wishing that mean old neighbor of yours Happy Holidays, each of us needs to do our part to make this the best time of year for everyone around us. In fact, we should be doing this throughout the year and should not need a reason to make a positive impact in the lives of others.

Each of us has a unique ability to make a positive impact in the lives of others and I feel it is our obligation as human beings to assert this ability. Our thoughts and actions determine who we are and how we treat other people. Get out there and spread the Holiday spirit and do not forget that you should be doing this throughout the year!

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My nephew, who turned 21 in August, just completed basic training for the Army. He was home for two weeks and then was sent to Fort Campbell, Kentucky, home of the 101st Airborne Division ("Screaming Eagles"). In all likelihood he will be shipped out to Iraq in December to fight the war on terror. Saying goodbye to him over a week ago was harder than I thought and I couldn't help but think I may never see him again. At the same time I was also very proud of him for charting his own course.

If you knew my nephew you would know that he has had an eventful life and has had to deal with hardships that most 21 year old boys do not face. When he dropped out of high school after his 10th grade year I was afraid he was headed down the wrong path in life.

After working at King Soopers for the past few years he decided he wanted to do something with his life so he decided to join the Army. Taking one look at my nephew and you would swear he is anorexic, standing at 6'4" and weighing 150lbs. When he first went into the Army recruiting office they told him he would have to pass a physical before they would consider him for the Army. This physical consisted of gaining 20lbs, running 2 miles, and performing sit-ups, pushups and pull-ups in a certain amount of time.  Since joining the Army was a goal he was motivated and passionate about, he had no problem passing the physical and with that he was shipped out to Ft Benning, Georgia for basic training.

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A few weeks ago I joined Toastmasters (www.toastmasters.org) as a way to practice and improve my communication and leadership skills. Yesterday I gave my first speech, called the "Ice Breaker", to the group. The "Ice Breaker" is used to introduce myself to the Toastmasters group and let them know more about me. I chose to talk about my purpose, mission, and vision.

Purpose: Help other people reach their dreams and goals.

Mission: Instill discipline, show the value of hard work, respect other people's views and opinions, stay in great physical and mental shape, and support and love my family to the fullest everyday.

Vision: Lead and organization that creates the best people and leaders in the world and uses its profits to create a non-profit organization that teaches youth life lessons through athletics. Love and support my family and support the local community through volunteer and fundraising efforts.

I ended my speech with the following...

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"Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted.""You cannot change the cards we are dealt only the way we play the hand.""Don’t complain just work harder.""Find the best in everybody; no matter how long you have to wait for them to show it.""Luck is where preparation meets opportunity."

From "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams" a lecture by Randy Pausch of Carnegie Mellon.

Randy Pausch, head of Virtual Reality within the Computer Science at Carnegie Mellon, has been diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer and was told in August 2007 to expect a remaining three to six months of good health. He gave one of the most moving and inspirational speeches I have seen where he talks about his childhood dreams and some of the lessons he has learned in his short life.

I would recommend everyone to view and listen to the lecture and see how a remarkable person is dealing with his terminal illness, still has a passion and zest for life, loves and respects his family and still inspires...

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Fall seven times, stand up eight - Japanese Proverb

How would most people react if they failed 70% of the time? In baseball, failing 70% of the time makes you an elite player and provides you with an excellent opportunity to reach the hall of fame.

Over the weekend, one of our players struck out 5 consecutive times and after the 5th strikeout went back to the bench and started crying. Here is a 15 year old who is doing everything he can to improve and give himself a chance to make the spring team and he felt like his world was over that day. To be honest, this might be one of the best things to happen to the young player because now he has an opportunity to deal with the failure and learn that failure in itself is not bad, if you can learn from it and get back up from the failure.  

One of the things I see in high school sports is the overwhelming desire to shun failure and to do everything you can not to fail. Players, coaches and parents do everything they can so the player does not fail....

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Here is a great passage from Martha Borst and her The Scoreboard in the Sky article...

What makes a difference?

Our thoughts, feelings, opinions, desires, fears - they are a part of our experience, but they don't make a difference in terms of results. They don't create a change. In the end, I will either have REASONS OR RESULTS. My results will tell me if my actions have been successful. My results tell me what I'm committed to…pursuing what I want or doing what's comfortable . . . producing the results or listening to the reasons.

Ultimately, the only thing that makes a difference is asking, "What's my next move? What's missing? What will it take?" And then . . . I must GO DO IT!